relationship counselling south manchesterOur intimate relationships are a source of enormous satisfaction… when they are going well. But when they are going badly, nothing makes us feel quite so miserable and unhappy.

I am a relationship counsellor, and I have been helping couples overcome their relationship difficulties for over 18 years. I offer face-to-face relationship counselling and sex therapy in South Manchester.

 

My clients tend to fall into three groups.

1 Couples who are committed to each other, but find they have a difficulty they can’t resolve themselves. The problem may be a sexual issue, such as premature ejaculation. Alternatively, it can be something as simple as a recurring argument they just can’t stop having.
relationship counselling for gay couples2 Couples who are on the verge of separation for whom counselling is “the last resort”. Whether you eventually decide to stay together or part, I support both people through the process, helping you to make the right decision for both of you.
3 Individuals who may or may not have a partner, but feel they have issues that are preventing them from enjoying a trusting loving relationship.
The question I often get asked is “what if my partner won’t come?” My suggestion is to come along anyway. A lot can be achieved by working with one person.

I work with straight, gay or polyamourous couples, whether you are married or not.  I am kink aware.

 

How I Work.

For those of you who are familiar with therapeutic terminology, I would describe myself as an integrative practitioner, but being committed to the Person Centred approach as my core theoretical model. I am also heavily influenced by cognitive behavioural therapy, Freudian psychoanalysis and transpersonal perspectives.

What does this mean?
4 I am first and foremost committed to the uniqueness of the couple in my work, and of their ability to find the most creative and constructive solutions to their difficulties – I am not the kind of relationship counsellor who tells you how to live your life.
5 I am committed to working flexibly, drawing on other approaches to therapy where appropriate – I am not a dogmatic therapist.
6 I am committed to using techniques that can be shown to create measurable changes in suitable couples – I believe in results.
7 I am sensitive to the impact that childhood relationships have on our behaviour, particularly those aspects of our behaviour that can be observed by others, but are not always noticed by the person themselves – I believe that sometimes we have to dig deep to get over our difficulties, but only sometimes.
8 I am open to the spiritual beliefs of clients and how they help inform our decisions and life view.
I am committed to making my relationship counseling service accessible to couples irrespective of ethnic or cultural background, sexuality, age, health status or disability.

 

I’m happy to discuss your situation by telephone before you make an appointment.